Violet had her first bowling experience this weekend. She was invited to her friend Ashton's birthday party at Vacationland Bowling. I had prepared her for the noisiness of the bowling alley, but even I wasn't prepared for the blacklights, the disco ball or the flashing lanes. Bowling certainly isn't like when I was a kid.

Fourth birthday parties, however, are much the same. Though it seems not one of these kids knew how to play duck-duck-goose. The mother patiently tried to explain it, but in the end they just did what they wanted. Violet was not the only one who would get up randomly, run around the circle and sit back down in her seat.

Glow in the dark necklaces make a very good game, too. Violet keeps up pretty well with the boys. The one in back is Caleb, the one in front is Aman; both of them are in her preschool class. She can just as likely be found holding hands with one of them as swinging at them.

But when asked what her favorite part of the party was she replied "the horse ride". This would be the 50 cent horse ride I let her take after the party because she had been begging to ride the whole time we were there.

We talked about going back there with Jason and Stella to try out the quiet bowling area, which seemed really nice. And as a bonus, you don't have to remember back to 9th grade phys ed to do the scoring. The nice computer man behind the pins does it for you while he's setting the pins back up.